After repeated push and pulls from her, it seems she started to pursue me, I completely stopped chasing her and I was less available and more indifferent. I haven't initiated any contact (even if I'm struggling) and I'm trying to send the message that I'm losing interest to wake her up. Now she sends me txts (some 1-2 every 2-3 days with "x" and stuff like that) and asks me to let her know when I'm available (it will happen in days). What shall I do during the time between today and next saturday when I've got already a date set up? I don't want her to lose interests but she let me down too many times in the past and I can't read her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
she started to lightly purse me.. how to keep interest high
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
B
BeDJ
Guest
This happens when you fail to NEXT.joker79 said:
Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 7, 2012
- Messages
- 5,512
- Reaction score
- 5,692
She's just trying to reel you back in. Once you start showing interest again, she will pull back. It's a game you can't win.joker79 said:
if we want to look at it from a different perspective: I've got this date set up at mine next saturday. It's the last opportunity I give myself to change my idea about her (-> she's playing games and uses me just as a ego booster). If she's able to change my mind, good; if not, good for me anyway. I am not sure that any kind of actions between now and next saturday is gonna have any effect and that's where this thread come from.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lamobatsman
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 11, 2012
- Messages
- 238
- Reaction score
- 4
whats the chances she flakes on next sat?
don't know really, think 40%, but a flake will be the indicator that I need to write her off. I told her firmly that I think she's playing games (she denied obviously) so a flake or any excuse would give me the reason to walk away, I think she's aware of it. The ball is in her court
What's with all the analysing here.
Boys, you are making my head spin. Percentages, flaking and nesting? This is all in over my head.
Girls don't need to be analysed.
Strike up some sexual conversation and see how she reacts.
Boys, you are making my head spin. Percentages, flaking and nesting? This is all in over my head.
Girls don't need to be analysed.
Strike up some sexual conversation and see how she reacts.