"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She Slipped Me Her Number

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1-800-HellNo

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Tonight after a concert a girl came over to me, introduced herself and slipped me a paper with a note and her number on it. That's one of the first times a girl has directly approached me so bluntly, and she was hot too.
It's weird not being the one initiating, and I'm not sure what I should text her.


What do you all do in this scenario?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this real life? I mean I guess it depends on what you think of her. If you think she is cute why wouldn't you contact her? That's showing a pretty high IL to do something like that...

As far as texting her I'd probably crack on her for "picking you up" at the concert and then just invite her out for a drink within a few texts. Don't get into a long text convo, just get her out on a date.
 
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Mauser96 said:
" Hi Susan, It's 1-800. I was kinda surprised when you gave me your number at the concert tonight, but I think you are cute. When are you free to get together?"
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Don't say you are surprised or that she's cute. Act like this sh!t happens all the time. And she'll know you think she is cute by you messaging her, no need to say it.

Just send a few BS texts and then invite her out like you would any other woman.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Don't say you are surprised or that she's cute. Act like this sh!t happens all the time. And she'll know you think she is cute by you messaging her, no need to say it.

Just send a few BS texts and then invite her out like you would any other woman.
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Bingo Bango!!:rockon: Call her she wants the "D". Not too many ways you can mess this up, except lack of confidence, but it just proves what we say around here over and over. When a woman is interested in you they make it easy for you.:yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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