"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She Slipped Me Her Number

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1-800-HellNo

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Tonight after a concert a girl came over to me, introduced herself and slipped me a paper with a note and her number on it. That's one of the first times a girl has directly approached me so bluntly, and she was hot too.
It's weird not being the one initiating, and I'm not sure what I should text her.


What do you all do in this scenario?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this real life? I mean I guess it depends on what you think of her. If you think she is cute why wouldn't you contact her? That's showing a pretty high IL to do something like that...

As far as texting her I'd probably crack on her for "picking you up" at the concert and then just invite her out for a drink within a few texts. Don't get into a long text convo, just get her out on a date.
 
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Mauser96 said:
" Hi Susan, It's 1-800. I was kinda surprised when you gave me your number at the concert tonight, but I think you are cute. When are you free to get together?"
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Don't say you are surprised or that she's cute. Act like this sh!t happens all the time. And she'll know you think she is cute by you messaging her, no need to say it.

Just send a few BS texts and then invite her out like you would any other woman.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Don't say you are surprised or that she's cute. Act like this sh!t happens all the time. And she'll know you think she is cute by you messaging her, no need to say it.

Just send a few BS texts and then invite her out like you would any other woman.
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Bingo Bango!!:rockon: Call her she wants the "D". Not too many ways you can mess this up, except lack of confidence, but it just proves what we say around here over and over. When a woman is interested in you they make it easy for you.:yes:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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