2 dates in and I realized this was going nowhere, for which I take full responsibility. Typically if nothing happens by then for me, I cut them off. So with this girl, I told her to holler at me later. She said "I assumed we were friends.". I guess that's due to lack of escalation on my part, right?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She says she assumed we were friends
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
marmel75
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Remember this always:
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
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WC2
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'Typically if nothing happens by then for me..'
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
Igetit!
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teddy said:
You expect her to think you two were more than friends when you never said or did anything sexual?
Well if you had 2 dates with her and NEVER made a move,then what reason would she have for thinking otherwise?
What did you even bother asking her out in the first place for?
Like "Mikey2012" said...."If you act like a pvssy..you wont get ANY".
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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How you start with a b**ch is how you will finish with a b**ch. You acted like a gay friend, so there. Surprised your princess is in another castle? I'm not. I took her into chambers because I was sexually escalating with her without fear. Either she bailed or banged. She banged.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.