2 dates in and I realized this was going nowhere, for which I take full responsibility. Typically if nothing happens by then for me, I cut them off. So with this girl, I told her to holler at me later. She said "I assumed we were friends.". I guess that's due to lack of escalation on my part, right?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She says she assumed we were friends
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
marmel75
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Remember this always:
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
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WC2
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'Typically if nothing happens by then for me..'
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
Igetit!
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teddy said:
You expect her to think you two were more than friends when you never said or did anything sexual?
Well if you had 2 dates with her and NEVER made a move,then what reason would she have for thinking otherwise?
What did you even bother asking her out in the first place for?
Like "Mikey2012" said...."If you act like a pvssy..you wont get ANY".
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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How you start with a b**ch is how you will finish with a b**ch. You acted like a gay friend, so there. Surprised your princess is in another castle? I'm not. I took her into chambers because I was sexually escalating with her without fear. Either she bailed or banged. She banged.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.