2 dates in and I realized this was going nowhere, for which I take full responsibility. Typically if nothing happens by then for me, I cut them off. So with this girl, I told her to holler at me later. She said "I assumed we were friends.". I guess that's due to lack of escalation on my part, right?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She says she assumed we were friends
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
marmel75
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Remember this always:
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
"A women is more likely to forgive you for acting like a man and attempting to go for it than for acting like a scared little boy"
Basically you are no longer a viable romantic option anymore. Move on and don't make the same mistake again.
Know who women love as friends? Gay men.
You know why? Because they know they are harmless to them sexually. Don't act like a gay man around a woman you are interested in.
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'Typically if nothing happens by then for me..'
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
I'm not really sure what you mean by this. Things will not 'just happen' with a woman. You seduce her, make the move, and make things happen on your own.
If you're waiting in line to see if she'll pull a move, then she's bound to be plucked by another.
I don't have any details about your dates, but it seems to me like you gave her no reason to think of you other than a friend.
And she told you so.
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teddy said:
You expect her to think you two were more than friends when you never said or did anything sexual?
Well if you had 2 dates with her and NEVER made a move,then what reason would she have for thinking otherwise?
What did you even bother asking her out in the first place for?
Like "Mikey2012" said...."If you act like a pvssy..you wont get ANY".
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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How you start with a b**ch is how you will finish with a b**ch. You acted like a gay friend, so there. Surprised your princess is in another castle? I'm not. I took her into chambers because I was sexually escalating with her without fear. Either she bailed or banged. She banged.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.
Case closed. Get out of my court so I can bang your friend again.