"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She says I am the strangest man has ever met

giovannikast

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Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me that I am the strangest man she has ever met, twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni

:D :D :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bussey

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Do you tend to count the number of steps you take between destinations? Cuz if so, you are strange.

Seriously tho, maybe shes seen you go for other chicks, and then while hitting on them, going for another at the same time.

Who knows.

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giovannikast

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never hitting another chick

thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Re: never hitting another chick

Originally posted by giovannikast
thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
Have you ever tried asking her to elaborate on that comment about you being "strange"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MVPlaya

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All linguistic meaning is socially constructed and based on context. If you want us to reply to the topic, you need to give more information, a description of your relationship, and various tangentially related issues that you feel may have sparked her comment, because until then, this is all I read:

Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me in our native language Prashkiva that "krobovat arashmesav kahurta khavash khsavas storsa," twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni
 

JT47319

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I'm assuming that you're like a lot of other wannabe DJs here who are trying to go from "beta" to "alpha."

If so, the way you convey yourself isn't congruent with the image that you want to project. In other words, you probably don't have the same attitude, body language, and convey the type of value that other "alpha" guys have.
 
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