"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She says I am the strangest man has ever met

giovannikast

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Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me that I am the strangest man she has ever met, twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni

:D :D :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bussey

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Do you tend to count the number of steps you take between destinations? Cuz if so, you are strange.

Seriously tho, maybe shes seen you go for other chicks, and then while hitting on them, going for another at the same time.

Who knows.

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giovannikast

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never hitting another chick

thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Re: never hitting another chick

Originally posted by giovannikast
thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
Have you ever tried asking her to elaborate on that comment about you being "strange"?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MVPlaya

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All linguistic meaning is socially constructed and based on context. If you want us to reply to the topic, you need to give more information, a description of your relationship, and various tangentially related issues that you feel may have sparked her comment, because until then, this is all I read:

Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me in our native language Prashkiva that "krobovat arashmesav kahurta khavash khsavas storsa," twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni
 

JT47319

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I'm assuming that you're like a lot of other wannabe DJs here who are trying to go from "beta" to "alpha."

If so, the way you convey yourself isn't congruent with the image that you want to project. In other words, you probably don't have the same attitude, body language, and convey the type of value that other "alpha" guys have.
 
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