"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She says I am the strangest man has ever met

giovannikast

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Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me that I am the strangest man she has ever met, twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni

:D :D :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bussey

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Do you tend to count the number of steps you take between destinations? Cuz if so, you are strange.

Seriously tho, maybe shes seen you go for other chicks, and then while hitting on them, going for another at the same time.

Who knows.

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giovannikast

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never hitting another chick

thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Re: never hitting another chick

Originally posted by giovannikast
thanks for your post, but I never tried to seduce any. I know her for about three months and I always considered her as my friend.
I just want to understand why she told me I am very strange, and what should I do, because she is pretty and I would like to try something.
Giovanni
:D :D :D
Have you ever tried asking her to elaborate on that comment about you being "strange"?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MVPlaya

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All linguistic meaning is socially constructed and based on context. If you want us to reply to the topic, you need to give more information, a description of your relationship, and various tangentially related issues that you feel may have sparked her comment, because until then, this is all I read:

Hi
Buddies
I am really confused. I have a friend, beautiful 7 points, who told me in our native language Prashkiva that "krobovat arashmesav kahurta khavash khsavas storsa," twice. Well, the strange here is that I never did something to her, never tried to seduce her or anything.
What did she mean, what should I do, I would like to hear your wise advices, buddies.
Giovanni
 

JT47319

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I'm assuming that you're like a lot of other wannabe DJs here who are trying to go from "beta" to "alpha."

If so, the way you convey yourself isn't congruent with the image that you want to project. In other words, you probably don't have the same attitude, body language, and convey the type of value that other "alpha" guys have.
 
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