"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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She says don't need my phone number

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How do you guys interpret this? I ask a girl out to lunch over the phone, she's very enthusiastic (as I was), and we end up having a nice time. We talked about getting together again (sitting in her car), and she asks what my number is, then says "oh, why don't you just call me, I don't really need your number". This is the same thing she had said when we talked on the phone before our first 'date'.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It means she has other options - that's why she's not that eager to get your number. That's how I read it.



PS: I could be wrong too. Nothing is every 100% correct - we can't read her mind, remember.
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
It means she has other options - that's why she's not that eager to get your number. That's how I read it.



PS: I could be wrong too. Nothing is every 100% correct - we can't read her mind, remember.
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Jake could be right in this case.

Hard to say what her angle is here. She could just be the type that does not like to call people or she might want you to call her. Sounds bizzare to me though.

I wouldn't worry about it too much right now.
 
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Thanks guys. I was thinking she's
basically giving me control about when to call (or if I call). And the fact is, she does have other options - I know that and it doesn't concern me. The other interesting fact is that she genuinely seems eager for my phone #, then backs off as I've said....Maybe it's because when she asks, I always offer my office number, not my home number ( which I rarely answer)..?
 
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