How do you guys interpret this? I ask a girl out to lunch over the phone, she's very enthusiastic (as I was), and we end up having a nice time. We talked about getting together again (sitting in her car), and she asks what my number is, then says "oh, why don't you just call me, I don't really need your number". This is the same thing she had said when we talked on the phone before our first 'date'.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She says don't need my phone number
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