"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She said looks is 8/9 and personality is a 4 how do I improve?

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From here you can see theres elements of using (validation) , manipulate, and guilt-triping (make u believe ure in fault) , and gaslighting (claim your personality sucks) you. All in one perfect narcissist recipe delight.. You know what to do.. Eject.
Gaslighting I have never heard of haha that’s new one
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yup shes preparing you for adulation and to fullfill her needs.. (narc supply).. Thank god youre here asking this silly question.. :p.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol and what comes out of their mouth.
So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
 

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So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.

Making you feel youre the crazy ones.

Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
 

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Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.

Making you feel youre the crazy ones.

Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
Not sure she has that lots of women wants validation.
 

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So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
With women look at what they do not what they say.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A healthy girl will show their feelings gesture initially for month before you closed their number, a nutcase wh0re usually will use their alluring equisite assets (their body) to get you chase them.. Due to their lack of emotional development. Take this as a wisdom in the future to which girl to be considered LTR or banging stuff.
 
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