Gaslighting I have never heard of haha that’s new one
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She said looks is 8/9 and personality is a 4 how do I improve?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lamath
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Hia advice is right on point there.
Gaslight is making you believe your a 4 on personality
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Yup shes preparing you for adulation and to fullfill her needs.. (narc supply).. Thank god youre here asking this silly question.. 
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Lower your personality to a 1 with her.
She will still want to hook up with you lol.
She will still want to hook up with you lol.
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lol and what comes out of their mouth.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Surely not haha. She’s already repulsed hahahaha
So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
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Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.
Making you feel youre the crazy ones.
Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
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Not sure she has that lots of women wants validation.
lamath
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With women look at what they do not what they say.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Yea she does sounds a nutcase to me
lamath
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might be an epidemic lol
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A healthy girl will show their feelings gesture initially for month before you closed their number, a nutcase wh0re usually will use their alluring equisite assets (their body) to get you chase them.. Due to their lack of emotional development. Take this as a wisdom in the future to which girl to be considered LTR or banging stuff.