"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She said looks is 8/9 and personality is a 4 how do I improve?

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From here you can see theres elements of using (validation) , manipulate, and guilt-triping (make u believe ure in fault) , and gaslighting (claim your personality sucks) you. All in one perfect narcissist recipe delight.. You know what to do.. Eject.
Gaslighting I have never heard of haha that’s new one
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yup shes preparing you for adulation and to fullfill her needs.. (narc supply).. Thank god youre here asking this silly question.. :p.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol and what comes out of their mouth.
So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
 

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So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.

Making you feel youre the crazy ones.

Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
 

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Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.

Making you feel youre the crazy ones.

Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
Not sure she has that lots of women wants validation.
 

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So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
With women look at what they do not what they say.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A healthy girl will show their feelings gesture initially for month before you closed their number, a nutcase wh0re usually will use their alluring equisite assets (their body) to get you chase them.. Due to their lack of emotional development. Take this as a wisdom in the future to which girl to be considered LTR or banging stuff.
 
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