Gaslighting I have never heard of haha that’s new one
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She said looks is 8/9 and personality is a 4 how do I improve?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lamath
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Hia advice is right on point there.
Gaslight is making you believe your a 4 on personality
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Yup shes preparing you for adulation and to fullfill her needs.. (narc supply).. Thank god youre here asking this silly question.. 
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Lower your personality to a 1 with her.
She will still want to hook up with you lol.
She will still want to hook up with you lol.
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lol and what comes out of their mouth.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Surely not haha. She’s already repulsed hahahaha
So basically she can tell me all these things in the world but she could be feeling something completely different right? Who knows aye haha
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Person with narc traits (personality disordered) has zero capabilities for empathy, its basically a projection of their disowned shortcoming projects to you, anything they said to you or acting out towards you. Its all about them not a about you. In shorts its the crazies.
Making you feel youre the crazy ones.
Having low self esteem they required validation at all times.
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Not sure she has that lots of women wants validation.
lamath
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With women look at what they do not what they say.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Yea she does sounds a nutcase to me
lamath
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might be an epidemic lol
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A healthy girl will show their feelings gesture initially for month before you closed their number, a nutcase wh0re usually will use their alluring equisite assets (their body) to get you chase them.. Due to their lack of emotional development. Take this as a wisdom in the future to which girl to be considered LTR or banging stuff.