I got this exclusive girl that has been with me for 3 months now. She calls me all the time. So much that i don't need to call her. But everytime we see each other it's because i made a date. She has never asked me to see her anywhere except maybe once. It's like as if she could go a lifetime without seen me. Im not sure if it's a red flag because sometimes i consiously make sure not to ask her out to see if she suggest something and she dosen't. I know it's my job to make things happen, but after a while there has to be some effort on her part. WTF. thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
she never takes initiative
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- Start date