"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she never takes initiative

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I got this exclusive girl that has been with me for 3 months now. She calls me all the time. So much that i don't need to call her. But everytime we see each other it's because i made a date. She has never asked me to see her anywhere except maybe once. It's like as if she could go a lifetime without seen me. Im not sure if it's a red flag because sometimes i consiously make sure not to ask her out to see if she suggest something and she dosen't. I know it's my job to make things happen, but after a while there has to be some effort on her part. WTF. thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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muzicfreak2k3

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her effort is calling you.... plenty of girls dont even do that (like the one im ogin for 4 exampl ;] ) consider yourself lucky man
 

bigmil

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my girl rarely calls. I've actaully asked her about it and she says she's just not like that -- she's always willing to hang out though. It seems a lot of girls just don't put forth that effort -- they wait for you.. YOU are the leader. You have nothing to worry about. If she's calling you then she wants to see you.
 
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