I got this exclusive girl that has been with me for 3 months now. She calls me all the time. So much that i don't need to call her. But everytime we see each other it's because i made a date. She has never asked me to see her anywhere except maybe once. It's like as if she could go a lifetime without seen me. Im not sure if it's a red flag because sometimes i consiously make sure not to ask her out to see if she suggest something and she dosen't. I know it's my job to make things happen, but after a while there has to be some effort on her part. WTF. thoughts?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
she never takes initiative
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- Start date