"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

She Never Had A Boyfriend.....Good Or Bad?

BBX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2006
Messages
556
Reaction score
6
Location
los angles, calli
If any of you follow my posts:crackup:, you would know that i'm trying to get this extremely shy girl who once gave me good signials and for some reason turned on the bit*h switch to me. She never had a boyfriend and is somewhat scared of guys...yea I'm trying to get rid of the oneitis i got from her but theres no point in not trying to still get her. So the fact that she never had a boyfriend help or hurt me? Any other advice would be great. Peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Phat

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
382
Reaction score
1
dude when u get a girl who has never had a boyfriend. its the best thing ever.. u can teach then everything they need to knoww.. : - P
 

Damian

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
440
Reaction score
3
Location
San Diego, CA
There is no ONE answer to that question. Girls who have never had a boyfriend are usually inexperienced, so you will have to teach them how to kiss, among other fun things. Sometimes it can be fun, but most of the time, it's a simple, but tedious, task of trial and error. Inexperienced girls are easily molded. Because they are 'new', you can guide them into certain sets of behavior. By verbally nudging them towards the pat that you want them to take, you can transform their personalities much more easily. One thing that you must remember about inexperienced girls is that they will get attached easily once you break past their barriers. They will easily become codependent on you and, if you break up, usually have the biggest impact on their lives. The first break-up will always be the hardest on a girl. Weigh your pros and cons, make a choice, and stick to it.

-Damian
 

dannowillbookem

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
1,151
Reaction score
5
Location
florida baby
just from my experience, avoid it. usually they have dellusions of never having sex until marriage, and you'll just be a stepping stone (she makes out some with you and you break up...she gives a handjob to the next guy...a ******* to the next guy and eventually has sex with some fool months or years later). bring up sex (not with you, just sex in general) and gauge her reaction. if its cold and closed off, you're probably screwed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

The Master Disaster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2005
Messages
510
Reaction score
2
You talk about a Witch Switch above. Just wait till she turns on the Witch Switch if she hasn't have a B/f. Trust me Girls with No B/f have a reason for the no b/f.

RUN!
 
Top