"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She Never Had A Boyfriend.....Good Or Bad?

BBX

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If any of you follow my posts:crackup:, you would know that i'm trying to get this extremely shy girl who once gave me good signials and for some reason turned on the bit*h switch to me. She never had a boyfriend and is somewhat scared of guys...yea I'm trying to get rid of the oneitis i got from her but theres no point in not trying to still get her. So the fact that she never had a boyfriend help or hurt me? Any other advice would be great. Peace
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phat

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dude when u get a girl who has never had a boyfriend. its the best thing ever.. u can teach then everything they need to knoww.. : - P
 

Damian

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There is no ONE answer to that question. Girls who have never had a boyfriend are usually inexperienced, so you will have to teach them how to kiss, among other fun things. Sometimes it can be fun, but most of the time, it's a simple, but tedious, task of trial and error. Inexperienced girls are easily molded. Because they are 'new', you can guide them into certain sets of behavior. By verbally nudging them towards the pat that you want them to take, you can transform their personalities much more easily. One thing that you must remember about inexperienced girls is that they will get attached easily once you break past their barriers. They will easily become codependent on you and, if you break up, usually have the biggest impact on their lives. The first break-up will always be the hardest on a girl. Weigh your pros and cons, make a choice, and stick to it.

-Damian
 

dannowillbookem

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just from my experience, avoid it. usually they have dellusions of never having sex until marriage, and you'll just be a stepping stone (she makes out some with you and you break up...she gives a handjob to the next guy...a ******* to the next guy and eventually has sex with some fool months or years later). bring up sex (not with you, just sex in general) and gauge her reaction. if its cold and closed off, you're probably screwed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Master Disaster

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You talk about a Witch Switch above. Just wait till she turns on the Witch Switch if she hasn't have a B/f. Trust me Girls with No B/f have a reason for the no b/f.

RUN!
 
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