"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She Never Had A Boyfriend.....Good Or Bad?

BBX

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If any of you follow my posts:crackup:, you would know that i'm trying to get this extremely shy girl who once gave me good signials and for some reason turned on the bit*h switch to me. She never had a boyfriend and is somewhat scared of guys...yea I'm trying to get rid of the oneitis i got from her but theres no point in not trying to still get her. So the fact that she never had a boyfriend help or hurt me? Any other advice would be great. Peace
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Phat

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dude when u get a girl who has never had a boyfriend. its the best thing ever.. u can teach then everything they need to knoww.. : - P
 

Damian

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There is no ONE answer to that question. Girls who have never had a boyfriend are usually inexperienced, so you will have to teach them how to kiss, among other fun things. Sometimes it can be fun, but most of the time, it's a simple, but tedious, task of trial and error. Inexperienced girls are easily molded. Because they are 'new', you can guide them into certain sets of behavior. By verbally nudging them towards the pat that you want them to take, you can transform their personalities much more easily. One thing that you must remember about inexperienced girls is that they will get attached easily once you break past their barriers. They will easily become codependent on you and, if you break up, usually have the biggest impact on their lives. The first break-up will always be the hardest on a girl. Weigh your pros and cons, make a choice, and stick to it.

-Damian
 

dannowillbookem

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just from my experience, avoid it. usually they have dellusions of never having sex until marriage, and you'll just be a stepping stone (she makes out some with you and you break up...she gives a handjob to the next guy...a ******* to the next guy and eventually has sex with some fool months or years later). bring up sex (not with you, just sex in general) and gauge her reaction. if its cold and closed off, you're probably screwed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Master Disaster

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You talk about a Witch Switch above. Just wait till she turns on the Witch Switch if she hasn't have a B/f. Trust me Girls with No B/f have a reason for the no b/f.

RUN!
 
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