"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She Never Had A Boyfriend.....Good Or Bad?

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If any of you follow my posts:crackup:, you would know that i'm trying to get this extremely shy girl who once gave me good signials and for some reason turned on the bit*h switch to me. She never had a boyfriend and is somewhat scared of guys...yea I'm trying to get rid of the oneitis i got from her but theres no point in not trying to still get her. So the fact that she never had a boyfriend help or hurt me? Any other advice would be great. Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude when u get a girl who has never had a boyfriend. its the best thing ever.. u can teach then everything they need to knoww.. : - P
 
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There is no ONE answer to that question. Girls who have never had a boyfriend are usually inexperienced, so you will have to teach them how to kiss, among other fun things. Sometimes it can be fun, but most of the time, it's a simple, but tedious, task of trial and error. Inexperienced girls are easily molded. Because they are 'new', you can guide them into certain sets of behavior. By verbally nudging them towards the pat that you want them to take, you can transform their personalities much more easily. One thing that you must remember about inexperienced girls is that they will get attached easily once you break past their barriers. They will easily become codependent on you and, if you break up, usually have the biggest impact on their lives. The first break-up will always be the hardest on a girl. Weigh your pros and cons, make a choice, and stick to it.

-Damian
 
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just from my experience, avoid it. usually they have dellusions of never having sex until marriage, and you'll just be a stepping stone (she makes out some with you and you break up...she gives a handjob to the next guy...a ******* to the next guy and eventually has sex with some fool months or years later). bring up sex (not with you, just sex in general) and gauge her reaction. if its cold and closed off, you're probably screwed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You talk about a Witch Switch above. Just wait till she turns on the Witch Switch if she hasn't have a B/f. Trust me Girls with No B/f have a reason for the no b/f.

RUN!
 
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