"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She looks bored when i talk to her

Rint

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She seems bored when i talk to her i ask questions, stay to one topic, ask about life, and compliment her, but she's giving me such a shallow bored response.
Example:
Me: Never heard that song is it good.
Her: Yea
Me: Wat's is about?
Her: Nothing really.

moving on.......
Me: so how was ur weekend?
Her: bout some stuff.
Me: like wat
Her: I 4got.
Then her friend walks by and she's all like
Her: HEY ____! WHERE"V U BEEN?! I got like all this stuff this weekend.

I'm thinking WTF? Why cant i b __________? Wat's my problem? It's not that this is the girl i'm intrested in but it lowers my asteam.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wavejams007

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Next her man.


Otherwise, hit on other girls in front of her and make sure it looks really exciting, use jealousy.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Rint
Next her? wats that?
newb. It means move on to the next girl, hence nexting her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Docs

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Hey, we're constantly redefining the word for him.....

..I'm in!

To Next A Girl:
Only valid in context of SoSuave.Net.

PartA: Real-World Definition
Next - adjacent, descriptive, (example: He is next to the girl), def. To be close to, To be beside.

PartB: SoSouave.Net
Next - verb, action, sy. Nexting, Next'ed, Move On, Leave, Continue. (example: I nexted that girl, You should next her), def. To move past a person and lose intention of dating.

PartC: As It Applies To You
If a girl finds you boring, or doesn't feel like talking to you, it usually means she is NOT interested. Would you be interested in someone you don't like talking to? Same deal.

By nexting, you take your current desires with this girl, and you either refocus on a different girl or recollect your feelings and time towards her. By nexting, you save yourself additional confusing, pain, reaction. It by no means shuts off the future potential of yourself and her. (hence burning bridges)

:) - And this is what happens when I can't sleep. Haha.
 
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