Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She looks bored when i talk to her

Rint

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She seems bored when i talk to her i ask questions, stay to one topic, ask about life, and compliment her, but she's giving me such a shallow bored response.
Example:
Me: Never heard that song is it good.
Her: Yea
Me: Wat's is about?
Her: Nothing really.

moving on.......
Me: so how was ur weekend?
Her: bout some stuff.
Me: like wat
Her: I 4got.
Then her friend walks by and she's all like
Her: HEY ____! WHERE"V U BEEN?! I got like all this stuff this weekend.

I'm thinking WTF? Why cant i b __________? Wat's my problem? It's not that this is the girl i'm intrested in but it lowers my asteam.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wavejams007

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Next her man.


Otherwise, hit on other girls in front of her and make sure it looks really exciting, use jealousy.
 

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Originally posted by Rint
Next her? wats that?
newb. It means move on to the next girl, hence nexting her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, we're constantly redefining the word for him.....

..I'm in!

To Next A Girl:
Only valid in context of SoSuave.Net.

PartA: Real-World Definition
Next - adjacent, descriptive, (example: He is next to the girl), def. To be close to, To be beside.

PartB: SoSouave.Net
Next - verb, action, sy. Nexting, Next'ed, Move On, Leave, Continue. (example: I nexted that girl, You should next her), def. To move past a person and lose intention of dating.

PartC: As It Applies To You
If a girl finds you boring, or doesn't feel like talking to you, it usually means she is NOT interested. Would you be interested in someone you don't like talking to? Same deal.

By nexting, you take your current desires with this girl, and you either refocus on a different girl or recollect your feelings and time towards her. By nexting, you save yourself additional confusing, pain, reaction. It by no means shuts off the future potential of yourself and her. (hence burning bridges)

:) - And this is what happens when I can't sleep. Haha.
 
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