"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She looks bored when i talk to her

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She seems bored when i talk to her i ask questions, stay to one topic, ask about life, and compliment her, but she's giving me such a shallow bored response.
Example:
Me: Never heard that song is it good.
Her: Yea
Me: Wat's is about?
Her: Nothing really.

moving on.......
Me: so how was ur weekend?
Her: bout some stuff.
Me: like wat
Her: I 4got.
Then her friend walks by and she's all like
Her: HEY ____! WHERE"V U BEEN?! I got like all this stuff this weekend.

I'm thinking WTF? Why cant i b __________? Wat's my problem? It's not that this is the girl i'm intrested in but it lowers my asteam.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Next her man.


Otherwise, hit on other girls in front of her and make sure it looks really exciting, use jealousy.
 
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Originally posted by Rint
Next her? wats that?
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newb. It means move on to the next girl, hence nexting her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey, we're constantly redefining the word for him.....

..I'm in!

To Next A Girl:
Only valid in context of SoSuave.Net.

PartA: Real-World Definition
Next - adjacent, descriptive, (example: He is next to the girl), def. To be close to, To be beside.

PartB: SoSouave.Net
Next - verb, action, sy. Nexting, Next'ed, Move On, Leave, Continue. (example: I nexted that girl, You should next her), def. To move past a person and lose intention of dating.

PartC: As It Applies To You
If a girl finds you boring, or doesn't feel like talking to you, it usually means she is NOT interested. Would you be interested in someone you don't like talking to? Same deal.

By nexting, you take your current desires with this girl, and you either refocus on a different girl or recollect your feelings and time towards her. By nexting, you save yourself additional confusing, pain, reaction. It by no means shuts off the future potential of yourself and her. (hence burning bridges)

:) - And this is what happens when I can't sleep. Haha.
 
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