"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She looks bored when i talk to her

Rint

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She seems bored when i talk to her i ask questions, stay to one topic, ask about life, and compliment her, but she's giving me such a shallow bored response.
Example:
Me: Never heard that song is it good.
Her: Yea
Me: Wat's is about?
Her: Nothing really.

moving on.......
Me: so how was ur weekend?
Her: bout some stuff.
Me: like wat
Her: I 4got.
Then her friend walks by and she's all like
Her: HEY ____! WHERE"V U BEEN?! I got like all this stuff this weekend.

I'm thinking WTF? Why cant i b __________? Wat's my problem? It's not that this is the girl i'm intrested in but it lowers my asteam.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wavejams007

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Next her man.


Otherwise, hit on other girls in front of her and make sure it looks really exciting, use jealousy.
 

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Originally posted by Rint
Next her? wats that?
newb. It means move on to the next girl, hence nexting her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey, we're constantly redefining the word for him.....

..I'm in!

To Next A Girl:
Only valid in context of SoSuave.Net.

PartA: Real-World Definition
Next - adjacent, descriptive, (example: He is next to the girl), def. To be close to, To be beside.

PartB: SoSouave.Net
Next - verb, action, sy. Nexting, Next'ed, Move On, Leave, Continue. (example: I nexted that girl, You should next her), def. To move past a person and lose intention of dating.

PartC: As It Applies To You
If a girl finds you boring, or doesn't feel like talking to you, it usually means she is NOT interested. Would you be interested in someone you don't like talking to? Same deal.

By nexting, you take your current desires with this girl, and you either refocus on a different girl or recollect your feelings and time towards her. By nexting, you save yourself additional confusing, pain, reaction. It by no means shuts off the future potential of yourself and her. (hence burning bridges)

:) - And this is what happens when I can't sleep. Haha.
 
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