"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she likes me, i like her

lucky13

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i met this girl a few weeks ok, just said hi, she was a friend of a friend, didnt say much, well she made a bulletin on myspace, i reponded to it, and weve been talking (on myspace =/ ) ever since. i learned from a friend that she has a crush on me, and i sorta have one on her too. shes really shy tho and she hasnt given me her number yet, or i mine. my question is should i give it to her? or wait for her to give it to me? i dont want her to loose interest before i get it, and i dont want to appear to be really easy to get (which ive read here is a turn off) so what should i do? i definatly want to ask her out, i just dont wanna do it over myspace without ever talking to her on the phone first =/
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Obsidian

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tell her (over myspace) an event that would be fun for you to do together
give her your cell #
ask for hers


Do this all in the same myspace message. And while you're at it, read the DJ Bible.
 
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