i met this girl a few weeks ok, just said hi, she was a friend of a friend, didnt say much, well she made a bulletin on myspace, i reponded to it, and weve been talking (on myspace =/ ) ever since. i learned from a friend that she has a crush on me, and i sorta have one on her too. shes really shy tho and she hasnt given me her number yet, or i mine. my question is should i give it to her? or wait for her to give it to me? i dont want her to loose interest before i get it, and i dont want to appear to be really easy to get (which ive read here is a turn off) so what should i do? i definatly want to ask her out, i just dont wanna do it over myspace without ever talking to her on the phone first =/
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
she likes me, i like her
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NSUballer
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yea myspace is gay. how old are u anyways?
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So get her digits, talk to her on the phone and ask her out, nothing ventured....