Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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she likes me, i like her

lucky13

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i met this girl a few weeks ok, just said hi, she was a friend of a friend, didnt say much, well she made a bulletin on myspace, i reponded to it, and weve been talking (on myspace =/ ) ever since. i learned from a friend that she has a crush on me, and i sorta have one on her too. shes really shy tho and she hasnt given me her number yet, or i mine. my question is should i give it to her? or wait for her to give it to me? i dont want her to loose interest before i get it, and i dont want to appear to be really easy to get (which ive read here is a turn off) so what should i do? i definatly want to ask her out, i just dont wanna do it over myspace without ever talking to her on the phone first =/
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Obsidian

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tell her (over myspace) an event that would be fun for you to do together
give her your cell #
ask for hers


Do this all in the same myspace message. And while you're at it, read the DJ Bible.
 
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