"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she likes me, i like her

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i met this girl a few weeks ok, just said hi, she was a friend of a friend, didnt say much, well she made a bulletin on myspace, i reponded to it, and weve been talking (on myspace =/ ) ever since. i learned from a friend that she has a crush on me, and i sorta have one on her too. shes really shy tho and she hasnt given me her number yet, or i mine. my question is should i give it to her? or wait for her to give it to me? i dont want her to loose interest before i get it, and i dont want to appear to be really easy to get (which ive read here is a turn off) so what should i do? i definatly want to ask her out, i just dont wanna do it over myspace without ever talking to her on the phone first =/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tell her (over myspace) an event that would be fun for you to do together
give her your cell #
ask for hers


Do this all in the same myspace message. And while you're at it, read the DJ Bible.
 
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