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She lets me grope her body, always wants to see me, but when I go in for the kill it's a no-go(we fvcked in the past already). Next?

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She’s coming over later on today.

DJ’s, what do I do?

Also I won’t do drugs with her.
Just let her have her way, you just take a drink or something better than that, just let her way with you, her to escalate, she will after having that emotionally high the drugs provides.. Just enjoy what gives. Dont get attached to this kind of girl, make no mistake this is a highly toxic relationship if u ever falls for her.. Again emotionally detached.
 

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Just let her have her way, you just take a drink or something better than that, just let her way with you, her to escalate, she will after having that emotionally high the drugs provides.. Just enjoy what gives. Dont get attached to this kind of girl, make no mistake this is a highly toxic relationship if u ever falls for her.. Again emotionally detached.

He already attached.

I have a Fvck buddy. She will always remain that.

I just have a problem with demoting a GF ... GF's are always nexted.

Yeah. Emotions.
 

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He already attached.

I have a Fvck buddy. She will always remain that.

I just have a problem with demoting a GF ... GF's are always nexted.

Yeah. Emotions.
He has been duly warns, after all this forum is about op, we can't control what a person will do with their own body..

GF are always nexted due to loss of respect dude.. U never be friends with an ex nor take them back.
 

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She's coming over, either way, I'm gonna straight up tell her that if she's playing games then it's over, I don't have time to waste
She's coming over, either way, I'm gonna straight up tell her that if she's playing games then it's over, I don't have time to waste
I didn't agree with this, it's either happened or not, you just have to ghost her, with crazies logic didn't really compute in their brains, and false rape allegations easily can be manipulate by women.. I say has fun with her... Dont go the other direction.
 

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Met girl a while back. Flirted, kinoed, went back to my place and sealed the deal.

Fast forward after a few weeks of hooking up, she talks about her ex(it's complicated). I make no big deal out of it, I back off and spin more plates.

She starts texting me again, we meet at a party, she's flirting, strong eye contact, asking me if I'm seeing someone, says bye with a kiss.

I, of course, invite her over.

I try to kiss her, she talks about her ex again. I ignore it this time, pull her close to me on the bed, grab her ass and tits, kiss her neck, and she does nothing except letting me have my way with her. Even gets on top of me and grinds on me, but doesn't let it go further than that, not letting me french kiss her because she feels "guilty".

Everything in her body language and eyes was saying she wanted to fvck, so what do I do now?

P.S: She's always finding reasons for us to hang out.
Start going balls deep on her hotter younger sister and friends. Post back afterwards.
 

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She’s coming over later on today.

DJ’s, what do I do?

Also I won’t do drugs with her.
She sounds like a keeper. Have you proposed yet? You guys can to do H at the reception.


She's coming over, either way, I'm gonna straight up tell her that if she's playing games then it's over, I don't have time to waste
Yet you're going to have a cute little chat lol

What part of 'demonstrate. Don't explicate,' don't you get?
 

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She sounds like a keeper. Have you proposed yet? You guys can to do H at the reception.




Yet you're going to have a cute little chat lol

What part of 'demonstrate. Don't explicate,' don't you get?
Alright alright Jesus, do I just fvckin kino then try to **** her?
 

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I think she caught a little something while rebounding from BF. Doesn't want to spread it to you. Better get yourself checked .
 

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I think she caught a little something while rebounding from BF. Doesn't want to spread it to you. Better get yourself checked .
lmao that would make sense considering making out is the only thing she didn’t let me do
 

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If you haven't handled a crazies before, just don't go further other than having fun with her, don't knocked her out either. Just follow the wise advised here in this forum.
 

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She's coming over, either way, I'm gonna straight up tell her that if she's playing games then it's over, I don't have time to waste
Alright alright Jesus, do I just fvckin kino then try to **** her?
You sa7d you already did or you made it up lol

If a woman getd out of pocket next her. If attention ***** take **** out.

Go after her hotter younger sister.
 

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Met girl a while back. Flirted, kinoed, went back to my place and sealed the deal.

Fast forward after a few weeks of hooking up, she talks about her ex(it's complicated). I make no big deal out of it, I back off and spin more plates.

She starts texting me again, we meet at a party, she's flirting, strong eye contact, asking me if I'm seeing someone, says bye with a kiss.

I, of course, invite her over.

I try to kiss her, she talks about her ex again. I ignore it this time, pull her close to me on the bed, grab her ass and tits, kiss her neck, and she does nothing except letting me have my way with her. Even gets on top of me and grinds on me, but doesn't let it go further than that, not letting me french kiss her because she feels "guilty".

Everything in her body language and eyes was saying she wanted to fvck, so what do I do now?

P.S: She's always finding reasons for us to hang out.
She's banging her ex. This happened to me last year. I was relegated to cuck status. Even though I was the new guy. She left him for me, but then went back to him, but liked my validation, so kept me as the cuddle guy. It was the first time in my life where I got cucked - as the new guy. Apparently her ex gave her 7 orgasms every time they had sex and I gave her 3, so 7 > 3.

I am not saying this is definitely happening to you. But I was in the exact same situation and that's what it was.
 

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Theres hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21.

You dont exchange the currency of attention for bad behaviour.

You leaf. She follows or next.
This is why most women are what they are today. They get unlimited validation while giving 0% effort.

Pvssy = validation. This is the frame that has guys stuck in desperation/scarcity mindset.

Her effort/compliance = validation. This is the frame that maintains self respect and boundaries that will lead to women bending over to your will.

If you don't have compliance, it's a sign you don't have sh1t.

At the beginning there is attraction and at the very end, there is compliance.
 
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She's coming from across the city on a bus just to see me. If that's not compliance then I don't know what it is.
The only compliance that matters to a guy is sexual compliance. Sexual compliance is the difference between her using you for validation vs genuine interest.
 
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