She lets me grope her body, always wants to see me, but when I go in for the kill it's a no-go(we fvcked in the past already). Next?

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Ah......so you'll continue doing what you've been doing that's gotten you ZERO RESULTS.

Sounds like a plan. :rolleyes:
He just going in for the fun, nothing more.. The girl wanted the same.. Mutual interests, nothing wrong with that
 
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He just going in for the fun, nothing more.. The girl wanted the same.. Mutual interests, nothing wrong with that
Exactly. I'm not her shoulder to cry on or vent. I don't do favors for her.

We're "friends" but with sexual tension, if that makes sense.

Anyway, she gets one last shot
 

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He just going in for the fun, nothing more..
Well if REPEATEDLY getting turned down and listening to her ramble on about some other guy qualifies as "fun",well hey...who am I to argue.....different strokes for different folks.


The girl wanted the same..
"Wanted" the same.......PAST TENSE.

Mutual interests, nothing wrong with that
I'd agree...if it were mutual.

He wants sex,she wants to discuss her ex. Doesn't sound mutual to me.....

Or......am I mistaken?
 

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Well if REPEATEDLY getting turned down and listening to her ramble on about some other guy qualifies as "fun",well hey...who am I to argue.....different strokes for different folks.




"Wanted" the same.......PAST TENSE.



I'd agree...if it were mutual.

He wants sex,she wants to discuss her ex. Doesn't sound mutual to me.....

Or......am I mistaken?
The keyword there is staying emotionally detached, if he wanted it just go for it, he already knows what lies ahead, just listen to her stupid stories about her ex yadaa yadaa doesn't mean hell take it seriously, there's no turning down involves, he doesn't expect any sex, it's just having fun can be define by a lot of things, I say enjoy her, not to try having sex with her,op mentioning this is her lasts chance, op doesn't have any problem with this. I repeat again with emotionally detached, no exemption on this.
 

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She brought up her ex in a 5 minute lull in conversation, not like we spent hours talking about him, Christ.

Again, she let me touch her pretty much everywhere, I just didn't push hard enough
 
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She brought up her ex in a 5 minute lull in conversation, not like we spent hours talking about him, Christ.

Again, she let me touch her pretty much everywhere, I just didn't push hard enough
A girl that telling you stories about his ex without you asking are always a red flags, remember that.
 

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She brought up her ex in a 5 minute lull in conversation, not like we spent hours talking about him, Christ.

Again, she let me touch her pretty much everywhere, I just didn't push hard enough
Dude does she need to suck his cawk right in front of you to realize she is still hung up on him?

Stop wasting time on her. Next.
 

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She's always finding reasons for us to hang out
Friends don't grope friends. She's fcked up like that, take it or leave it.

Often times they want us to take them. As in forcefully. It turns them on. Try to escalate things properly, put her on her knees and stick your dck into her mouth.
 

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Friends don't grope friends. She's fcked up like that, take it or leave it.

Often times they want us to take them. As in forcefully. It turns them on. Try to escalate things properly, put her on her knees and stick your dck into her mouth.
Funny thing is, she never gave me the « let’s just be friends talk ». She made it clear that she’s into me, but that she feels guilty or whatever.
 
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Funny thing is, she never gave me the « let’s just be friends talk ». She made it clear that she’s into me, but that she feels guilty or whatever.
None of that matters.. U have already fvcks her.. Just leave it that way, enjoy. Some women didn't have any passion for bj, not even for their husband, not all of us made by the same cookie cutter. That's maybe some of the reason she got dumped by her bf.
 
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MDMA? THIS AIN'T 2001!

GTFO NOW!
Bird I did that with was the worst I ever had. Told her I loved her because she told me and I was messed up. We both regretted it the next morning, even though she was what you would call "exremely high interest". Everything wrong.

You are in the sh1t in this particular and need to get out of it or at least have an extremely level head (or give zero fvcks which I doubt that you do based on the thread and all).

Mate, she's a wrong'un.
Sounds like in this case Aunt Molly is probably going to muddy the waters. But my counterpoint is that a session with my GF really allowed us (me in particular) to get past counter-productive anxieties and have conversations were weren't likely ever going to have without the assistance of MDMA. As a result we're closer, because we were able to express things to each other that were being repressed by anxiety and inhibitions.

But that advice is likely only relevant when you're not dealing with a BPD situation.
 

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Sounds like in this case Aunt Molly is probably going to muddy the waters. But my counterpoint is that a session with my GF really allowed us (me in particular) to get past counter-productive anxieties and have conversations were weren't likely ever going to have without the assistance of MDMA. As a result we're closer, because we were able to express things to each other that were being repressed by anxiety and inhibitions.

But that advice is likely only relevant when you're not dealing with a BPD situation.

FUN FACT MDMA PUTS HOLES IN YOUR BRAIN!

You got "closer" with your gf blah blah blah.
 
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Stop her talking about her boyfriend, none of that talk with me baby, it's just about us. She is going to fck, there is no need for next. Whoever says next is stripping.
 

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Met girl a while back. Flirted, kinoed, went back to my place and sealed the deal.

Fast forward after a few weeks of hooking up, she talks about her ex(it's complicated). RED FLAG I make no big deal out of it, I back off and spin more plates.

She starts texting me again, we meet at a party, she's flirting, strong eye contact, asking me if I'm seeing someone, says bye with a kiss.

I, of course, invite her over.

I try to kiss her, she talks about her ex again.RED FLAG I ignore it this time, pull her close to me on the bed, grab her ass and tits, kiss her neck, and she does nothing except letting me have my way with her. Even gets on top of me and grinds on me, but doesn't let it go further than that, not letting me french kiss her because she feels "guilty".RED FLAG

Everything in her body language and eyes was saying she wanted to fvck, so what do I do now?

P.S: She's always finding reasons for us to hang out.


Tell her "Once you are 100% over your ex, give me a call"
 
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FUN FACT MDMA PUTS HOLES IN YOUR BRAIN!

You got "closer" with your gf blah blah blah.
No rose-colored glasses here on the affect on your ability to be rationale. Which is why the next time we saw each other we had a sober conversation about our "trip" together. In my particular case it was helpful in opening up repressed channels of communication. Your mileage may vary based on the personality-types of the two people involved.

As for FUN "FACT"... As someone on an anti-depressant that affects dopamine and serotonin re-uptake, I did do some research on the effects of MDMA. With some precautions, the biggest being not to imbibe more than once per month (not ever gonna get close to that level of frequency), the next to make sure you're hydrated to counteract the body thermal-regulation issues, it's way less risky than a ton of other drugs out there if you know the details and mitigate accordingly.
 
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