"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She knows alot of people

Bigg Boss

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What do you do when you're walking with a girl thru the halls and she stops for a se to talk or joke wit someone? Do you just stand there and look dumb? Do you try to run and find someone you know real quick? I'm not a guy of much social proof so alot of the people she stops and talks to I don't know.


It's my last semester in hgihschool so I think it is kinda late to try to get alot of new friends (maybe thats an excuse). But it seems if I wanna really pull this girl, I can't look like I'm lame.

Tommorow I was thinking about tryin to hold her attention the whole walk, maybe wit my arm around her jokin and stuff. *shrugs* I don't know, I need help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kdnash82

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Dude... you just said it yourself. You want to make new friends, and the people she's stopping to talk to you don't know right? Next time she stops, when there is a break in their conversation, SPEAK THE HELL UP! "Hey what's going on?? My name is blah blah." 'Nice to meet you blah blah... I'm blah blah.' Then join in the conversation like you're a part of it. If it's a dude that should make it even easier. Whether it's a guy or a girl, the next time you see them, say their name. "Wussup blah blah" If you got a second, chat them up. "Dude... who do you have for english? Oh yeah, I have her too. She's tough huh? What period do you have her? Oh yeah, did she give a pop quiz today?"

Good luck
 

penkitten

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these guys just gave you great advice, you should really join in and make friends with her circle. become part of the circle. that way if things dont work out between the two of you later, you made friends out of it.
 
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