"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

She knows alot of people

B

Bigg Boss

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
188
Reaction score
0
What do you do when you're walking with a girl thru the halls and she stops for a se to talk or joke wit someone? Do you just stand there and look dumb? Do you try to run and find someone you know real quick? I'm not a guy of much social proof so alot of the people she stops and talks to I don't know.


It's my last semester in hgihschool so I think it is kinda late to try to get alot of new friends (maybe thats an excuse). But it seems if I wanna really pull this girl, I can't look like I'm lame.

Tommorow I was thinking about tryin to hold her attention the whole walk, maybe wit my arm around her jokin and stuff. *shrugs* I don't know, I need help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

K

kdnash82

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
530
Reaction score
8
Location
A land near you
Dude... you just said it yourself. You want to make new friends, and the people she's stopping to talk to you don't know right? Next time she stops, when there is a break in their conversation, SPEAK THE HELL UP! "Hey what's going on?? My name is blah blah." 'Nice to meet you blah blah... I'm blah blah.' Then join in the conversation like you're a part of it. If it's a dude that should make it even easier. Whether it's a guy or a girl, the next time you see them, say their name. "Wussup blah blah" If you got a second, chat them up. "Dude... who do you have for english? Oh yeah, I have her too. She's tough huh? What period do you have her? Oh yeah, did she give a pop quiz today?"

Good luck
 
penkitten

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
these guys just gave you great advice, you should really join in and make friends with her circle. become part of the circle. that way if things dont work out between the two of you later, you made friends out of it.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top