"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you do when you're walking with a girl thru the halls and she stops for a se to talk or joke wit someone? Do you just stand there and look dumb? Do you try to run and find someone you know real quick? I'm not a guy of much social proof so alot of the people she stops and talks to I don't know.


It's my last semester in hgihschool so I think it is kinda late to try to get alot of new friends (maybe thats an excuse). But it seems if I wanna really pull this girl, I can't look like I'm lame.

Tommorow I was thinking about tryin to hold her attention the whole walk, maybe wit my arm around her jokin and stuff. *shrugs* I don't know, I need help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude... you just said it yourself. You want to make new friends, and the people she's stopping to talk to you don't know right? Next time she stops, when there is a break in their conversation, SPEAK THE HELL UP! "Hey what's going on?? My name is blah blah." 'Nice to meet you blah blah... I'm blah blah.' Then join in the conversation like you're a part of it. If it's a dude that should make it even easier. Whether it's a guy or a girl, the next time you see them, say their name. "Wussup blah blah" If you got a second, chat them up. "Dude... who do you have for english? Oh yeah, I have her too. She's tough huh? What period do you have her? Oh yeah, did she give a pop quiz today?"

Good luck
 
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these guys just gave you great advice, you should really join in and make friends with her circle. become part of the circle. that way if things dont work out between the two of you later, you made friends out of it.
 
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