"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She knows alot of people

Bigg Boss

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What do you do when you're walking with a girl thru the halls and she stops for a se to talk or joke wit someone? Do you just stand there and look dumb? Do you try to run and find someone you know real quick? I'm not a guy of much social proof so alot of the people she stops and talks to I don't know.


It's my last semester in hgihschool so I think it is kinda late to try to get alot of new friends (maybe thats an excuse). But it seems if I wanna really pull this girl, I can't look like I'm lame.

Tommorow I was thinking about tryin to hold her attention the whole walk, maybe wit my arm around her jokin and stuff. *shrugs* I don't know, I need help
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

kdnash82

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Dude... you just said it yourself. You want to make new friends, and the people she's stopping to talk to you don't know right? Next time she stops, when there is a break in their conversation, SPEAK THE HELL UP! "Hey what's going on?? My name is blah blah." 'Nice to meet you blah blah... I'm blah blah.' Then join in the conversation like you're a part of it. If it's a dude that should make it even easier. Whether it's a guy or a girl, the next time you see them, say their name. "Wussup blah blah" If you got a second, chat them up. "Dude... who do you have for english? Oh yeah, I have her too. She's tough huh? What period do you have her? Oh yeah, did she give a pop quiz today?"

Good luck
 

penkitten

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these guys just gave you great advice, you should really join in and make friends with her circle. become part of the circle. that way if things dont work out between the two of you later, you made friends out of it.
 
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