You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I actually would love to get better at everything, life is about constant improvement, no one is perfect. I would not be on this site if I thought I was so great. So any advice that is given in a constructive manner and is not a personnal attack made to look like an advice is greatly appreciated. I understand, I might have to work on some stuff, which I don't mind doingUnless you want to better your "text-game" (which signs suggest that you don't) said:
Good luck getting that on this site.any advice that is given in a constructive manner and is not a personnal attack made to look like an advice is greatly appreciated
Some people are clueless/unaware because their egos won't let them walk away.When a girl uses only single word replies.. She is overtly telling you, that your are not a Priority!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm guessing you meant Gauging interest level?Guaging interest level is not something daddy taught you. Go back to playing with your toys.
Apparently it is Ops own fault.. He deserves to be treated in this obnoxious manner by her, because he isn't trying hard enough!One liners means low interest, so move on. Would she give one-liners to Lebron James or Tom Brady? Hell no.
This is why you should ask her out early. Anything other than a yes with the proper backing actions is a no, and warrants an automatic delete.
People speak from experience here. Those guys don't want to just be friends or some other beta role. Second place is first loser, meaning you either be beta or nothing to her. Being nothing is better even though you didn't get the girl.
That's a terrible example because it's not a boring lazy question, the only flaw is that the answer is kinda obvious and there aren't that many choicesIn guy talk, have you ever had that one annoying mate who would constantly ask inane questions? Such as: "if there were a dinosuar walking down this road right now, what would you do?"
Gets tiring. Sucks the life out of you. Value mooching.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.