You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I actually would love to get better at everything, life is about constant improvement, no one is perfect. I would not be on this site if I thought I was so great. So any advice that is given in a constructive manner and is not a personnal attack made to look like an advice is greatly appreciated. I understand, I might have to work on some stuff, which I don't mind doingUnless you want to better your "text-game" (which signs suggest that you don't) said:
Good luck getting that on this site.any advice that is given in a constructive manner and is not a personnal attack made to look like an advice is greatly appreciated
Some people are clueless/unaware because their egos won't let them walk away.When a girl uses only single word replies.. She is overtly telling you, that your are not a Priority!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm guessing you meant Gauging interest level?Guaging interest level is not something daddy taught you. Go back to playing with your toys.
Apparently it is Ops own fault.. He deserves to be treated in this obnoxious manner by her, because he isn't trying hard enough!One liners means low interest, so move on. Would she give one-liners to Lebron James or Tom Brady? Hell no.
This is why you should ask her out early. Anything other than a yes with the proper backing actions is a no, and warrants an automatic delete.
People speak from experience here. Those guys don't want to just be friends or some other beta role. Second place is first loser, meaning you either be beta or nothing to her. Being nothing is better even though you didn't get the girl.
That's a terrible example because it's not a boring lazy question, the only flaw is that the answer is kinda obvious and there aren't that many choicesIn guy talk, have you ever had that one annoying mate who would constantly ask inane questions? Such as: "if there were a dinosuar walking down this road right now, what would you do?"
Gets tiring. Sucks the life out of you. Value mooching.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.