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She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Hi Op, the truth is that relationships only work well when the women likes the man more than the man likes the woman.

There is no stability in your relationship because she is not as committed to you as you are to her. I doubt that will change. She has to be at least a little afraid of fu$%ing up and losing you.

I would recommend just being a little more distant, a little less affectionate since your efforts have not been reciprocated and see what happens.

Do your thing for a little bit. Get in to your hobbies and hang out with your buddies. It sounds like you have 1itis.

Best of luck man.
This all day long, dude. From a certain point of view she is begging you to establish a strong frame.
 
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