She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

[AureliusMaximus]

Hi Op, the truth is that relationships only work well when the women likes the man more than the man likes the woman.

Damn true.
Many relationships that fail is because she is pissed that she is together with you and didn't get the one that she really wanted.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I have loved many an imaginary woman in my life….Women whose bad behavior I excused because I always spun it the best way possible in my mind.

 

[Whydomyeyeshurt]

Hi Op, the truth is that relationships only work well when the women likes the man more than the man likes the woman.

There is no stability in your relationship because she is not as committed to you as you are to her. I doubt that will change. She has to be at least a little afraid of fu$%ing up and losing you.

I would recommend just being a little more distant, a little less affectionate since your efforts have not been reciprocated and see what happens.

Do your thing for a little bit. Get in to your hobbies and hang out with your buddies. It sounds like you have 1itis.

Best of luck man.

This all day long, dude. From a certain point of view she is begging you to establish a strong frame.