You made it clear in your mind going to the party was unacceptable behaviour for you personally.Could you share what red flags do you saw on my side?
Asking that cause if there is anything I did wrong I wanna learn from it and mature mysefl.
She went to the party and crossed the line and did something you deemed unneceptable.
You changed your boundaries to accommodate someone who broke them.
Also what does that teach the other person about your boundaries?
I'm also curious was it just a bluff on your part, as just an attempt to control a situation you felt uncomfortable about?