Yeah, touch is an attention who-re thing too. I don't think there is a definite way to tell if she likes you that much or not (when she has a bf that is). Some women have to have a daily dosage of attention just so they feel they are still desirable. Attractive women with bf's all know they have options, so if they flirt with you, they might just be reassuring themselves that they can have you if they want, but not be genuinely interested in you. At the same time, it has been said that a woman won't leave her bf for you until she is SURE she already has you. This seems contradictory to the way of the DJ, which tells us to NOT give ourselves away completely, but I think in certain instances, we must take what is ours when it is there. Action. Oh yeah, "borefriend," haha, that's awesome. You know, when a guy like one of us shows up and begins macking on a chick, they're always going to realize their bf is a loser compared to us, lol, so we will run into this problem pretty often.