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Master Don Juan
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
comic_relief
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yes, I love it when a guy realizes he made a mistake in categorizing me without seeing that I have character and depth. (Cuz he's a blind neophte.)Discerning true character and depth is an art that only men know. Once the man-in-training realizes I'm not just a slvt he wants what he threw away. Yup! Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN. Of course, you'rebigjohnson said:You obviously have no idea what I realize. I know all women are different and I *also* know that every one of you craves male attention. Thus you love it when the suckers crawl back the same as every other woman loves it.
In other words while you are all distinct people this is one trait that virtually every one of you share. It's not an insult, just an observation.
Shall I draw a diagram for you?
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Why does it sound like you are complaining? You should hook up with both of them.DJorBUST said:Whoa, whoa, whoa...who said I'm not going to at least fu*k this girl? Oh, she's definitely going to get it...
Ironically, just as I start getting serious with this one, the old oneitis calls me up and leaves a message and starts messaging me again today. Why does that always freakin' happen? How do they know?!
It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.Moonlight said:Yes, I love it .... Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN.
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.Moonlight said:You're still on the all women are alike tip.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.bigjohnson said:It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.![]()
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.
Which is correct. Deny it if you want but it's still true.
I never said "all women are alike" anymore than I would say "all steaks are alike" - that would be a stupid female-type thing to say, and I'm a man.
Moonlight said:Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.duh!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tazman said:She may be a model, but not all models are attractive to all men. .....
No guy just turns down a hot piece of ass because it was "too" available