comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
comic_relief
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yes, I love it when a guy realizes he made a mistake in categorizing me without seeing that I have character and depth. (Cuz he's a blind neophte.)Discerning true character and depth is an art that only men know. Once the man-in-training realizes I'm not just a slvt he wants what he threw away. Yup! Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN. Of course, you'rebigjohnson said:You obviously have no idea what I realize. I know all women are different and I *also* know that every one of you craves male attention. Thus you love it when the suckers crawl back the same as every other woman loves it.
In other words while you are all distinct people this is one trait that virtually every one of you share. It's not an insult, just an observation.
Shall I draw a diagram for you?
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Why does it sound like you are complaining? You should hook up with both of them.DJorBUST said:Whoa, whoa, whoa...who said I'm not going to at least fu*k this girl? Oh, she's definitely going to get it...
Ironically, just as I start getting serious with this one, the old oneitis calls me up and leaves a message and starts messaging me again today. Why does that always freakin' happen? How do they know?!
It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.Moonlight said:Yes, I love it .... Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN.
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.Moonlight said:You're still on the all women are alike tip.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.bigjohnson said:It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.![]()
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.
Which is correct. Deny it if you want but it's still true.
I never said "all women are alike" anymore than I would say "all steaks are alike" - that would be a stupid female-type thing to say, and I'm a man.
Moonlight said:Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.duh!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tazman said:She may be a model, but not all models are attractive to all men. .....
No guy just turns down a hot piece of ass because it was "too" available