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Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She gave herself freely so I lost interest...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whoa, whoa, whoa...who said I'm not going to at least fu*k this girl? Oh, she's definitely going to get it...
Ironically, just as I start getting serious with this one, the old oneitis calls me up and leaves a message and starts messaging me again today. Why does that always freakin' happen? How do they know?!
Ironically, just as I start getting serious with this one, the old oneitis calls me up and leaves a message and starts messaging me again today. Why does that always freakin' happen? How do they know?!
Yes, I love it when a guy realizes he made a mistake in categorizing me without seeing that I have character and depth. (Cuz he's a blind neophte.)Discerning true character and depth is an art that only men know. Once the man-in-training realizes I'm not just a slvt he wants what he threw away. Yup! Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN. Of course, you'rebigjohnson said:
still learning and growing so you haven't experienced this yet to know. You're still on the all women are alike tip. And you want to draw me stick figures to show me the error of my ways. How cute!
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Why does it sound like you are complaining? You should hook up with both of them.DJorBUST said:
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It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.Moonlight said:
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.Moonlight said:
Which is correct. Deny it if you want but it's still true.
I never said "all women are alike" anymore than I would say "all steaks are alike" - that would be a stupid female-type thing to say, and I'm a man.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.bigjohnson said:It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.
Which is correct. Deny it if you want but it's still true.
I never said "all women are alike" anymore than I would say "all steaks are alike" - that would be a stupid female-type thing to say, and I'm a man.
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Moonlight said:Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.
One last time for the impaired:
First, I quoted you: "I love it when they beg me back."
Then I said "You and every other woman".
Which clearly means "All women love it when/if they can get some poor bastard to crawl back", not "All women are identical".
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You see, that's how it works, a sane person provides context (the quote) then commentary (my comment) and non-idiots (most men and a few women) with a memory exceeding that of a deranged goldfish proceed to understand the intent.
Diagram offer is withdrawn. :moon:
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Moonlight... just let this one go. You're being utterly defeated.
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Interestingly I don't really care about "beating her", it would just be nice for ONCE if some woman, somewhere would step back and say "Oh, well, the way you said that wasn't very clear and I thought you meant something else", or even better "Oops, I guess I misunderstood your somewhat cryptic comment".
Ideally that would happen, but in reality the vast majority of women are so used to men kissing their ass they don't know what to do when they're wrong and get called on it. We have to ignore, next or suck up to them. I don't do "suck up" very well, particularly when she's not flashing her cleavage in my direction.
Ideally that would happen, but in reality the vast majority of women are so used to men kissing their ass they don't know what to do when they're wrong and get called on it. We have to ignore, next or suck up to them. I don't do "suck up" very well, particularly when she's not flashing her cleavage in my direction.
Yeah, I'd be a little suspicious about her high interest level too, but she seems like a pretty good catch to me. I never waste my time trying to turn around a girl's interest level when I can tell it's pretty low anyway. Hey, it happens.
As long as she doesn't have some fire-breathing dragon crawling out of her vagina, just go for it. It seems like she would give it up pretty easily. Just remember, having sex with a hot girl is a LOT more fun than having sex with your hand. Haha!
As long as she doesn't have some fire-breathing dragon crawling out of her vagina, just go for it. It seems like she would give it up pretty easily. Just remember, having sex with a hot girl is a LOT more fun than having sex with your hand. Haha!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I sort of think the guy's just not really over his oneitis yet.
She may be a model, but not all models are attractive to all men. I think you "don't" find her "attractive" enough to go through with it. I always hear stuff from friends/family about women they could've been with, but decided not to for some odd reason. I saw some of the women in question and immediately knew why........lol, they weren't attractive.
No guy just turns down a hot piece of ass because it was "too" available (and I don't mean some chick spreading her pvssy open after talking for a few seconds.......but even then, it depends on how she looks). That's got to be one of the biggest myths going these days. Whenever I actually see these people it becomes all too clear why they didn't take the bait.
Just my opinion, no offense intended.
No guy just turns down a hot piece of ass because it was "too" available (and I don't mean some chick spreading her pvssy open after talking for a few seconds.......but even then, it depends on how she looks). That's got to be one of the biggest myths going these days. Whenever I actually see these people it becomes all too clear why they didn't take the bait.
Just my opinion, no offense intended.
Moonlight your a funny fvcka I must say. You havnt got a clue what your talking about, but you are funny!
Did you know that nearly all girls are just like you i.e Think they're so much better than they actually are? (Fvcking beta males, you see the effects they have on a girls attitude guys?) Where you from I wona meet up... i'll show you a thing or two darling. you a looker?
Did you know that nearly all girls are just like you i.e Think they're so much better than they actually are? (Fvcking beta males, you see the effects they have on a girls attitude guys?) Where you from I wona meet up... i'll show you a thing or two darling. you a looker?
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Tazman said:
I agree on both points. Those big-womans models usually make me want to hide. I think it's got nothing to do with the girl though, it's 100% him and he's making excuses.