comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
comic_relief
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Some people are, I always take the money.DonJuan11 said:If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes, I love it when a guy realizes he made a mistake in categorizing me without seeing that I have character and depth. (Cuz he's a blind neophte.)Discerning true character and depth is an art that only men know. Once the man-in-training realizes I'm not just a slvt he wants what he threw away. Yup! Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN. Of course, you'rebigjohnson said:You obviously have no idea what I realize. I know all women are different and I *also* know that every one of you craves male attention. Thus you love it when the suckers crawl back the same as every other woman loves it.
In other words while you are all distinct people this is one trait that virtually every one of you share. It's not an insult, just an observation.
Shall I draw a diagram for you?
:crackup:
Why does it sound like you are complaining? You should hook up with both of them.DJorBUST said:Whoa, whoa, whoa...who said I'm not going to at least fu*k this girl? Oh, she's definitely going to get it...
Ironically, just as I start getting serious with this one, the old oneitis calls me up and leaves a message and starts messaging me again today. Why does that always freakin' happen? How do they know?!
It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.Moonlight said:Yes, I love it .... Loving that is not being female - that's being HUMAN.
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.Moonlight said:You're still on the all women are alike tip.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.bigjohnson said:It might seem like that if you're a woman I suppose. I and the men I know don't generally get off on that sort of thing.![]()
You need to exercise your reading comprehension to prevent coming off like "yet another daffy wench" honey. I quoted you in ONE SPECIFIC AREA ("I love it when they beg me back.") then said that you and every other woman (virtually) would love that because you're attention craving creatures.
Which is correct. Deny it if you want but it's still true.
I never said "all women are alike" anymore than I would say "all steaks are alike" - that would be a stupid female-type thing to say, and I'm a man.
Moonlight said:Sorry, you need to learn syonyms. You and every other woman is the same as all women.duh!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tazman said:She may be a model, but not all models are attractive to all men. .....
No guy just turns down a hot piece of ass because it was "too" available