Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Hahaha so true!
Let's pray for a "Hail Mary" successful date. He needs it.
Let's pray for a "Hail Mary" successful date. He needs it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Date went quite well.
Dinner was very engaging. We always have plenty to talk about. My C+F has gotten really good (without seeming like I'm trying too hard). I also made sure to kino her a bit.
The movie was even better. Shrek 4 is a great date movie BTW. Fun and light-hearted and the whole plot is about the two main characters having a magical kiss. Way more kino during the film.
I took note of her body language and looked for IOIs, green lights all-around. And yes, I kiss closed.
Dinner was very engaging. We always have plenty to talk about. My C+F has gotten really good (without seeming like I'm trying too hard). I also made sure to kino her a bit.
The movie was even better. Shrek 4 is a great date movie BTW. Fun and light-hearted and the whole plot is about the two main characters having a magical kiss. Way more kino during the film.
I took note of her body language and looked for IOIs, green lights all-around. And yes, I kiss closed.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Haha, funny how the naysayers dissapear pretty quickly. I'm just gonna take this one from here. But thanks everybody for the feedback (good or bad)tsmith2334 said:
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
I guess you can continue the celebration dance. "several dates over a course of a couple of years, and now you got the ultimate... kiss close".
He!! you are on the fast track now. Maybe in a year or two, you can grab her breast... under the sweater!!
He!! you are on the fast track now. Maybe in a year or two, you can grab her breast... under the sweater!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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tsmith2334 said:
How much money did you spend on this date? Not hating at all, just a simple question.
DonGorgon
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Very good I'm happy for u
tsmith2334
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$0Rescue Mission said:
Bought dinner using a gift car I got for Christmas (specific to the restaurant, not a cash gift card) and our theater does Free Ticket Tuesday if you subscribe to a certain cable company (hence setting the date up for Tuesday). Being that the movie was in 3D we had to pay $3.50 extra for the glasses, which she paid for (since I "treated" dinner on the gift card).
Altogether it would have been under $40, but it ended up costing me $0 (which she knew going in) and her $7.
Igetit!
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Ok,you went out on a date with her and it went well.tsmith2334 said:
So now what? I remember somewhere in an earlier post of yours where you said something about "turning it into something more".
What did you mean by that? Having sex? Becoming boyfriend and girlfriend? Getting engaged? I always thought it was odd of how you planned on going from trying to decide whether or not to flake on this girl,to trying to "make something more" with her just like that,but whatever man.
Well you got your date and she didn't flake. Cool
. Did the subject of her flaking (or cancelling) on you the two previous times ever come up?
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tsmith2334 said:
EXCELLENT!
Just want I wanted to hear!!
And keep in mind for future reference, the only $$ you need to ever spend on this girl would be for wine to get her tipsy, and for condoms to keep yourself protected........otherwise, as long as you are fun, sexual, and dominant, you should be able to seduce her into fvcking in no time!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
You better start savin up for a condom. At the breakneck speed you are movin... in 2 or 3 short years you are gonna need it! :crackup:
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Nothing but bullies and negativity on here, I swear. Weren't you the same person swearing up and down I wouldn't kiss close?Joe Stud said:
Can I ask why you feel the need to make such comments? May I ask what you're try to accomplish? Is it because you're 54 and bitter?
I feel bad that you feel the need to belittle others due to your own insecurities.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Do you not read?vatoloco said:LOL. It's more like "You can lead a horse to water..."
We've told you. You've refused to listen. There's not much we can add, is there?
The naysayers said there was no chance she'd show up, let alone be interested or that I could close.
They were wrong on all fronts.
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What exactly was your goal here? To get a kiss so you can come back here and be a diva about it? Who's being negative?
Sh*t often times doesn't work out in real life the way SS says it will. I think we all realize that. That being said, you got a kiss. You didn't 'win' something, and you're better off without that mentality, trust me. Whoever shall exalt himself, shall be humbled, YO.
Sh*t often times doesn't work out in real life the way SS says it will. I think we all realize that. That being said, you got a kiss. You didn't 'win' something, and you're better off without that mentality, trust me. Whoever shall exalt himself, shall be humbled, YO.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tsmith2334
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Damn dude, fair point. Interesting stuff. Repped.Forty0ztoFreedom said:
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Show me where I said this:
I swear. Weren't you the same person swearing up and down I wouldn't kiss close?
Now this is what I said:
You're boring her to death. moving too slow. What part of: "make the hoe say no", don't you understand??
You dont really listen attentively. I was playfully trying to lite a fire under you a$$. You are moving too slow, and she is gonna see you as a nice guy / friend.
I'm not bitter at all bro, just teasing a little.
I swear. Weren't you the same person swearing up and down I wouldn't kiss close?
Now this is what I said:
You're boring her to death. moving too slow. What part of: "make the hoe say no", don't you understand??
You dont really listen attentively. I was playfully trying to lite a fire under you a$$. You are moving too slow, and she is gonna see you as a nice guy / friend.
I'm not bitter at all bro, just teasing a little.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Thanks man, I appreciate it. Repped.Joe Stud said:
That said, I've spent way too much time on what should just be considered a standard date.
Right now my only goal is to spin plates (whether it's her or someone else) and to have fun. I really can't argue with anyone who says I'm over-thinking it, so this is the last you'll hear from me on this particular girl.
If I can't get my mentality where it needs to be the women (and happiness) won't follow.
So it works out with her, great. If not, on to the next one.
Thanks everyone for your input, and Joe Stud thanks for the kick in the ass.
Smith
Joe Stud
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You are young yet, my friend Smitty... you will do fine. Moving in the right direction. God Bless.
BTW... i already repped you for the story, details, and results reporting
BTW... i already repped you for the story, details, and results reporting
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.