"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She doesnt really love me right?

SuckItUp

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You asked a question you already of which knew the answer.

Why even bother with her. She's a waste of time and sounds broken. Why settle for broken.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prime_Beef

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We haven't heard back from original poster. Hope he got the msg . Alpha widow a topic in itself, worthy of a thread!
 

yuppaz

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Honestly bro that's a ****ty thing to say if she's sober but if she's plastered drunk,maybe let it go? If she says **** like that again sober or drunk then f>ck the *****, treat her real mean and just make her your little bj slave...

I only say that because I never drink bit when I get ripped I'm a f&ckin lunatic and don'the mean any of the **** I say.....
 

yuppaz

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Ya I didn'the see the bit about her salivating over her x before and after the drunk session. There may be something to the alpha x thing. I was recently / debating dating this chick who is SoooOOO in love with her druggy x boyfriend. X of 5 years ago. She does whatever she needs to to fly out and visit him thousands of miles away to bang him even as she lives with a guy here. She is seeing a therapist about it and everything just completely **** whipped.

But I'very been really drunk before and said **** totally against my character and thinking. So not so against forgiving some things when someone is really lit.
 
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