"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She doesnt really love me right?

SuckItUp

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You asked a question you already of which knew the answer.

Why even bother with her. She's a waste of time and sounds broken. Why settle for broken.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We haven't heard back from original poster. Hope he got the msg . Alpha widow a topic in itself, worthy of a thread!
 

yuppaz

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Honestly bro that's a ****ty thing to say if she's sober but if she's plastered drunk,maybe let it go? If she says **** like that again sober or drunk then f>ck the *****, treat her real mean and just make her your little bj slave...

I only say that because I never drink bit when I get ripped I'm a f&ckin lunatic and don'the mean any of the **** I say.....
 

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Ya I didn'the see the bit about her salivating over her x before and after the drunk session. There may be something to the alpha x thing. I was recently / debating dating this chick who is SoooOOO in love with her druggy x boyfriend. X of 5 years ago. She does whatever she needs to to fly out and visit him thousands of miles away to bang him even as she lives with a guy here. She is seeing a therapist about it and everything just completely **** whipped.

But I'very been really drunk before and said **** totally against my character and thinking. So not so against forgiving some things when someone is really lit.
 
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