"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

She doesnt really love me right?

SuckItUp

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2015
Messages
263
Reaction score
157
Location
Pleasant Hill, CA
You asked a question you already of which knew the answer.

Why even bother with her. She's a waste of time and sounds broken. Why settle for broken.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Prime_Beef

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2014
Messages
136
Reaction score
61
Des
We haven't heard back from original poster. Hope he got the msg . Alpha widow a topic in itself, worthy of a thread!
 

yuppaz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2008
Messages
1,025
Reaction score
99
Honestly bro that's a ****ty thing to say if she's sober but if she's plastered drunk,maybe let it go? If she says **** like that again sober or drunk then f>ck the *****, treat her real mean and just make her your little bj slave...

I only say that because I never drink bit when I get ripped I'm a f&ckin lunatic and don'the mean any of the **** I say.....
 

yuppaz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2008
Messages
1,025
Reaction score
99
Ya I didn'the see the bit about her salivating over her x before and after the drunk session. There may be something to the alpha x thing. I was recently / debating dating this chick who is SoooOOO in love with her druggy x boyfriend. X of 5 years ago. She does whatever she needs to to fly out and visit him thousands of miles away to bang him even as she lives with a guy here. She is seeing a therapist about it and everything just completely **** whipped.

But I'very been really drunk before and said **** totally against my character and thinking. So not so against forgiving some things when someone is really lit.
 
Top